First Date Don’ts!
You reached out and scored a first date… don’t mess it up. Congratulations! But before you dive
headfirst into the first meetup, let's go over some important “don'ts” to ensure your date goes smoothly—or at least avoids disaster!
1. Skip the Movie Theater: Taking your date to a movie might seem like a classic choice, but it's a big no-no! You'll spend two hours in silence, missing out on valuable conversation time. Opt for a setting where you can actually talk and get to know each other.
2. Don't Be a Chatterbox: Yes, you're fabulous, but that doesn't mean you need to dominate the conversation. Listen to what your date has to say, and resist the urge to turn the evening into a monologue about yourself.
3. Avoid Interrogation Mode: Your date is not a suspect in a crime investigation! Don't bombard them with a barrage of questions. Instead, let the conversation flow naturally and focus on building a connection.
4. Say No to Phone Obsession: Your phone can wait! Keep it tucked away during the date and give your full attention to your companion. Nothing says “I’m not interested” like constantly checking your messages or scrolling through social media.
5. Eyes Up Here: Eye contact is key! Don't let your gaze wander. Make eye contact. Show your date that you're engaged and interested in what they're saying by maintaining good eye contact throughout the evening.
Bonus Don't: Don't Split the Check! Chivalry is not dead! Be a gentleman and pick up the tab.
It's a small gesture that can make a big difference. By avoiding these don'ts, you'll increase your chances of a successful first date and potentially pave the way for more romantic adventures in the future. So, remember to keep these tips in
mind and go forth with confidence!